I totally and completely get not wanting to have anything to do with people you find empty and ridiculous - believe me! - but it's her TONE that infuriated me. It makes more sense, once you see it from the POV of her being insecure, like many have said, and god knows, I don't admire people who, as you said, "waft through life in an all-nurturing, non-judgmental cloud" (can you say "annoying" and "vapid"?) but just. I don't know. The sweeting generalizations NEVER sit well with me, no matter who's doing the sweeping, you know?