It's interesting, isn't it? So many possibilities. I imagine they both fucked it up - I think it must have been when he was really young, idealistic, hopeful, and in denial, about a lot of things. It was a total train wreck because he's John and, no matter what, he can't not be...yeah. John. And young! It just adds a whole new dimension to him, and I love that. (Also, yeah, okay, he was totally queer. *g*)

And YES. You can tell Flanigan's not getting any sleep, though. Poor guy. *g* THREE KIDS. Can't be easy. That was probably his first golf game in a month or something. *g*