You don't know who I am! I feel so free! I can say whatever I like!
Um. YOU SUCK. OMG I HATE U SO HARD.
OK, that's a lie. I totally don't hate you. I sort of love you a lot.
Also? Sort of related is that there are people in the world who kind of like it when other people are unhappy with them. They feel that maybe they're unhappy, but they are not the only one.
But then when you get happy, they get annoyed and angry and can lash out. This DOES NOT make you wrong in any way. It makes them shitty. Because although it sucks to be in a bad place, being passive-agressive at your happy-friends is a mean and shitty thing to do. If you have a problem, be direct. Being passive agressive is not ok.
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Um. YOU SUCK. OMG I HATE U SO HARD.
OK, that's a lie. I totally don't hate you. I sort of love you a lot.
Also? Sort of related is that there are people in the world who kind of like it when other people are unhappy with them. They feel that maybe they're unhappy, but they are not the only one.
But then when you get happy, they get annoyed and angry and can lash out. This DOES NOT make you wrong in any way. It makes them shitty. Because although it sucks to be in a bad place, being passive-agressive at your happy-friends is a mean and shitty thing to do. If you have a problem, be direct. Being passive agressive is not ok.
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YOUR MOM.