I've been failing hardcore at commenting these days, and I feel bad whenever I happen to catch a post on my f-list that is about stuff like this, because I just can't handle getting wrapped into other people's problems right now. And it probably makes me a bad person (which is why I'm owning my comment, here, because I don't want anyone else getting blamed for it) but...I don't know. I do the same thing in RL, backing away when things are about to go pear shaped in my own life. I can just barely manage to talk about the easy stuff these days; the difficult conversations make me cry.
Still. It's not that I don't care, or that it isn't important. It's that I'm bad at people, and I hate that my issues mean that people I love get hurt. It sucks.
(All of which may not apply, because I may not know you. In which case, oops? And sorry? And I bet there are people on your f-list who have the same issues?)
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I've been failing hardcore at commenting these days, and I feel bad whenever I happen to catch a post on my f-list that is about stuff like this, because I just can't handle getting wrapped into other people's problems right now. And it probably makes me a bad person (which is why I'm owning my comment, here, because I don't want anyone else getting blamed for it) but...I don't know. I do the same thing in RL, backing away when things are about to go pear shaped in my own life. I can just barely manage to talk about the easy stuff these days; the difficult conversations make me cry.
Still. It's not that I don't care, or that it isn't important. It's that I'm bad at people, and I hate that my issues mean that people I love get hurt. It sucks.
(All of which may not apply, because I may not know you. In which case, oops? And sorry? And I bet there are people on your f-list who have the same issues?)
*hugs just in case*
*goes back to being anonymous*